• I wish I had fought for more custody. I have 50/50. 50/50 is not good. Mentally healthy parents or not, it is best if school age kids go to one home during the school week, and save their transitions for holidays and/or weekends. I had wise people tell me this, but I was so certain that being equal was the best way to get out and away from him as…[Read more]

  • I had this realization this week, why it feels like my CN is always winning, and why I feel like I’m always losing in our divorce. I am 2 years out from leaving him and 1 year since divorce decree. We still are in a battle over division of retirement. And we always have issues over the children I have to share with him 50/50. Every time something…[Read more]

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