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Beginning Again

You ARE Worth Fighting For!Additional Resources, Beginning Again, Depression, Journey of Healing, Relationships-Beyond Dysfunction, Toxic Relationships

A timely reprint from a blog on AlexDelon.com. Domestic violence has surged through the Covid-19 lockdowns. If you need help, please reach out. You’re not alone and you are worth fighting for! Here’s my story of desperation. It’s the day I gloved up and began to fight for myself. ~~~~~~ This has been a strange […]

Sad and Lonely? You’re Not Alone.Beginning Again, Brilliance after Abuse, Discovery & Recovery, Journey of Healing, Relationships-Beyond Dysfunction

This morning a woman on Facebook stirred memories of those first months after I left my husband of 47 years. When we finally leave a narcissistic relationship, we can be pretty broken and emotionally battered. Not at the top of our game for sure. Leaving isn’t the fulfillment of our dream, it’s a last resort […]

Rewrite Your StoryBeginning Again, Brilliance after Abuse, Journey of Healing, Relationships-Beyond Dysfunction, Single and Sassy

Break the seal of the past. Grab the quill. Redirect your path. Rewrite the next scene of your story. You’re the Director, Producer and Star of the show. This is your life to own. Alex Delon

To Leave a Narcissist, Do We Feel Like a Narcissist?Beginning Again, Covert Narcissism, Emotional Abuse, Toxic Relationships

In a Narcissistic relationship, do we have to be like them to leave them? This isn’t a trick question. If you even considered it leaving a narcissist…you get it. The narcissist wouldn’t identify something they did as “Narcissistic”. Ever. Their defense mechanisms would kick in to justify their actions as they projected the blame unto […]

Transitions, Torches and TimeBeginning Again, Single and Sassy

When we pass the torch, do we diminish our fire? Does the glow of relevance we fueled as an entrepreneur, employee, spouse, or parent flicker and fade as we relinquish these roles? You bet it does, was my initial response, yet aging always requires change; from toddlers to puberty to independence and often parenthood, to […]

The Blame-Shame Nonsense GameBeginning Again, Brilliance after Abuse, Codependence, Emotional Abuse, Single and Sassy, Understanding Narcissism

That people are quick to hurl blame and shame in the guise of accountability is often nonsense and cruel. The Blame “It takes two, you know.” I got that one from a friend when I told her my husband was having another affair and I’d left him. She frosted her remark with, “Well, he always […]

Single On BoardBeginning Again, Brilliance after Abuse, Codependence, Discovery & Recovery, Single and Sassy

Single Life…just what is it? Google defines ‘single’ as; only one, not one of several, unmarried or not involved in a stable sexual relationship. Yup, that pretty much sums it up, but what does it feel like when you have to own it? Reminds me of that damned roller coaster. The slammed-to-the-back-tug when you pull […]

What Are You Waiting For?Beginning Again, Relationships-Beyond Dysfunction, Understanding Narcissism

I didn’t admit it until now, as I read a great love story. Even though it had a tragic ending, he loved her with all his heart and she him. She was loved back. I spent over 47 years with a man who was not capable of loving me back, but I didn’t know it. […]

At what what stage in your life did you realize, “No, I can’t do this anymore,” and walk out? Why?Beginning Again, Brilliance after Abuse, Discovery & Recovery, Uncategorized, Understanding Narcissism

By Alex Delon, author of LEAVING YOU….for me.        alexdelon.com An answer to the above question posted on Quora.com:  I reached that point a few months after my Medicare card arrived…after 47.5 years of marriage…four days after a walk on the boardwalk to watch a dazzling sunset, a wildly intimate weekend where we toasted […]

To Leave or Lead Someone On?Beginning Again, Brilliance after Abuse, Discovery & Recovery, Emotional Abuse, Relationships-Beyond Dysfunction, Understanding Narcissism

by Alex Delon   alexdelon.com Beginning again after an abusive relationship is an adventure. We may find ourselves in new relationships, not wanting to make the mistakes we made before, or treat anyone with less than honesty and respect we all deserve. I’m learning as I go…and this is a lesson I needed to live and […]

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