• Grandma Gertie became a registered member 1 year ago

    • Hey GG! Sucks to be here with you but grateful to not feel alone.

      I’m in the process of divorcing a CN. I was wondering if anyone brought up the abuse in their divorce? With my H an abuse allegation could have negative professional consequences.

      • I did not bring up the abuse in the divorce process. I think it would have caused a huge reaction from him and ruined the quick and relatively peaceful divorce we ended up with.
        I had talked with him many times about the verbal and emotional abuse. He didn’t get it! I tried to explain every way that was possible. He said to me once, “How can you possibly say that I am a bad husband? I have never once hit you!” He had no idea how he made the boys and I feel. He will never understand.
        So I let it go and simply walked away.