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Dear one ,
I’m sorry to hear what you’ve been through . From all the challenges we faced through narcissistic abuse, most difficult one is the fear of loosing our children.
I experienced the same where my children were being brainwashed and used to as a weapon to fight against me, my ex uses triangulation to involve both of my children everytime he fished for arguments . At that time I felt hopeless and deeply saddened with my children’s attitude towards me , I do feel your pain .. however my friends and family encouraged me to continue to be the best mother we can be despite all the terrible treatment I received from them. I did take my alone space when things are too much to handle . Miracle then started to happen when the old one reached the age of 20 , she started to realize that what was happening was not right , they started to realize that the problem is not with me but with their dad . Now they are very close to me and not talking to their father . It could happen to you too …
Remember , fear is the number one weapon narcissist use against us , and fear is the one that consume and paralyze every bit of us , fear is the one who make us doubt ourself , try to over come the fear… just go with the flow like the flowing river , read the book from Tina Swithin as she experienced the same …I know you
Can do it …

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