Hi all. A short introduction… I left my narc 2 years ago after 7 years of marriage, 13 years together and a (then 3 year old) child. I left when the emotional and mental abuse turned physical for the 1st time. I walked out the door and basically never returned. My mistake? I didn’t take my son with me. I had no plan. STBX was an obsessive workaholic and was never home, so I stupidly thought I could remove myself from him without having to displace my child. He has since strangled me from being able to spend more than 3 weeknights a week with my son. I have been to 2 therapists and a mediator with him. I have put my son in his own play therapy. I have my own therapist. We have been actively in the divorce process over a year now and have gotten nowhere. He was very well advised and has done so many things to disable me from having any control. I should include that I left the marital home because it was his house from 10 years before I met him. My name isn’t on the title. I would love to meet other women in this boat – being accused by their narc of abandoning the child and being fought by the narc for more than 50% custody.
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