Forgiveness may not mean what you think it means
FORGIVENESS MAY NOT MEAN WHAT YOU THINK IT MEANS Among abuse survivors, I hear a lot of debate over whether
The Blame-Shame Nonsense Game
That people are quick to hurl blame and shame in the guise of accountability is often nonsense and cruel. The
Breadcrumbs of Love from a Narcissist
Imagine a dog that has been neglected. It lives in a home with an owner. The potential for love and
Life with a Narcissist: An Exhaustion Like No Other
LIFE WITH A NARCISSIST: AN EXHAUSTION LIKE NO OTHER My 18-year old son recently said to me, “Mom, no marriage
Two Simple and Effective Tools for Healing the Pain of Narcissistic Abuse
TWO SIMPLE AND EFFECTIVE TOOLS FOR HEALING THE PAIN OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSE Do you feel that narcissism is everywhere? The
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Pitfalls of Keeping the Peace… Playing the Peacekeeper becomes a core focus for those in relationships with a narcissist. We’re
7 Common Things the Narcissist Says to Undermine You
7 COMMON THINGS THE NARCISSIST SAYS TO UNDERMINE YOU Narcissistic people are extremely skilled at making you doubt yourself. They
3 Questions for Survivors of Emotional Abusive Relationships
A young woman, two generations younger and half a world away suggested I write a Q & A Blog for survivors.
What Are the Worst Things About Life With a Narcissist?
We adapt: to their tempers, impatience, even to their contempt, yet for me, the worst thing about living with a
Narcissistic Control Tactics
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