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  • October 11, 2019 at 10:17 pm in reply to: My Young Adult Kids are avoiding me. #133961
    Narcfreenow
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      Thanks

      October 1, 2019 at 9:48 pm in reply to: looking for women over 50 who are leaving their narc #122083
      Narcfreenow
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        I’m 52. I am divorcing but still married. I guess next month marks our 28th year still not divorced. That’s funny! “Still not divorced” was my
        main concern for our past ten anniversaries.
        I made the moronic choice to stay with the Narc, “for the kids.” Good grief, what a blind fool I was. My kids are in their early 20s. They are having a very hard time with the truth about their dad and the truth that they were abused. They are doing what I did for 28 years. making excuses and avoiding the change and uncertainty of parting ways with him.
        I left the Narc one year ago and filed for divorce in November. He has proven to be more of a self centered and self destructive lunatic than I ever imagined possible and I had imagined hell.

        Finding the truth in the mountain of lies that I lived under for almost 3 decades, has been exhausting and devastating and I have been so ashamed of myself for staying there and keeping my children in that hell.

        I’m glad to have a group over fifty to connect with.

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