Just turned fifty. Separated from the narc after a 27 year marriage. Been apart for three years but only no contact for the last eight months…the past three years before going no contact have been riddled with smear campaigns…threats… property destruction and total insanity at times…but somehow he still comes out the victim with suicide threats when he goes too far. I have a light bulb moment of self discovery almost daily now.
What enrages me the most is how he gets what he wants to this day by threatening to harm himself…after 25 years of using this tactic on me…I feel nothing but disgust when he still is doing this to his new supply.
Positive note…it does get much better after no contact.