I need to get numbers 1 and 2 printed out and put on a wall sometime.
To remind me not to cooperate with or participate in *that* kind of thing, any more, ever again.
When a person is like that, or is acting like that, or is treating you like that, for ANY reason, just get out of the circle.
(Easier said than done. That’s why I might need a reminder. Why *all* sensible, reasonable people might.)