My wife is nice and behaves normally 99% of the time unless I do one of the following:
try to contact parents, family or friends
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use the internet outside of work purposes
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have any kind of social media presence
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read or watch science fiction or fantasy
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So, as long as I have ‘harmless’ hobbies, no friends or internet access, she is not abusive towards me. I suspect covert narcissism, but strangely am not motivated to leave. I did leave once after she hit me, apparently by accident, but no longer feel that I am in physical danger. She denies hitting me, saying that I am delusional and paranoid, and often blames me for things. I have gone “grey rock” whenever she tries to gaslight me.
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This topic was modified 4 years, 3 months ago by AvalonHope.
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This topic was modified 4 years, 3 months ago by AvalonHope.
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This topic was modified 4 years, 3 months ago by AvalonHope.