Not even sure where to begin. My adult children (20-30) have just found out that their Father is a Narcissist. They aren’t ready to accept that label, which is fine. But long story short he picked up and went on Sabatical by himself to another Country. He didn’t discuss it with them first and since he has been gone they have seen how self absorbed he is and how that he only calls them when he needs something. And how he keeps them busy doing his tasks and how little interest he actually has in their well being. I was always bad cop and they always thought he was good cop. This has been a real awakening for them. However it is causing them a lot of pain in many different ways. They all need therapy which they refuse to go for. Some of them are working on healing. Others are not. Two of them display some of his behaviors, which makes me worry for their spouses. What can I offer them? How can I help them?