So I am currently quarantining and living with my stbx and our three kids.
I left last fall but ended up coming back because I couldn’t live on my friends couch anymore and I couldn’t afford a place of my own.

I can’t take the gaslighting and projecting anymore. He emotionally mentally financially and sexually abused me during our 11 year marriage and now claims that we need therapy so I can see I just misunderstood him he’s not and I took advantage of him by moving back.

Is there any advantage to going to a couples therapist during a divorce?
I begged him for years to go and to go to AA and he wouldn’t until I left.