Hi Renee

I’m so looking forward to living alone with the boys, no more tension, just lots of fun and lots of laughs, a lighthearted joyous home.

There is no doubt that I am the one who supports them emotionally, I am their safety, and we are very close. The next step is removing them from this environment which won’t be for 18 months.

They are lovely boys who have worked out quite a lot about their dad from their own experience. I have twin boys aged 13, one has down syndrome. Children with ds have so much joy to give, he is beautiful with a heart of gold.Can you imagine how a covert narcissist feels about a son with a disability? Sam Vaknin explains:

(Ignore the bit about Munchausen syndrome at the end)

Sam Vaknin is a self confessed narcissist and renowned expert on narcissism. His videos are definitely worth a watch if you haven’t come across him yet).

My son with ds has never had the courage to speak his mind to his dad. Then an extraordinary thing happened a couple of weeks ago. He said to his dad “I want a different dad”, “One who is warm and cozy”. My ex was actually shocked, as if to wonder how has my son with down syndrome managed to get the measure of me? I think my son had been leading up to saying that all his life.

Bye for now

Emma

Kids with ds are also super tuned in to peoples feelings and the emotional environment.
Sadly their dad

When he is an arsehole they have me

The next step of removing them is