We have seven children together and this all just started This past November. I need so much help. The kids are all handling it differently. My husband is blocking therapy but my lawyer will go next week to court to obtain it. I feel so bad that my children have to go through this and be in a divorced home. Renee – You are right though – my oldest daughter, 17, sees what is happening and has been in therapy for four months. It is the next two – ages 14 and 9 – that I am mostly worried about right now. My husband has glopped onto our 14 year old daughter as if she were me. She doesn’t believe me most of the time. All I can do is pray, stay strong and peaceful and get them into therapy!