CiCi Walite

  • CiCi Walite replied to the topic Guilt in the forum Covert Narcissism 3 months, 3 weeks ago

    Thank you for this response, Renee. It helps to hear from someone else who acknowledges the wounds of their CN (ex)partner, and how hard it is to walk away when you know how much pain they’re in – even if they don’t realize their pain. For me, it’s exacerbated by the fact that I am a psychotherapist, and I help so many people get healthier – just…[Read more]

  • I know that all of my children are dealing with several of these types of damage. It’s so hard to accept that I allowed them to be emotionally abused for as long as I did. Now that I’ve stopped enabling my CN husband, I’m now struggling with enabling my children in the effort to counter some of the emotional scarring they’ve suffered. I do…[Read more]

  • CiCi Walite started the topic Guilt in the forum Covert Narcissism 3 months, 4 weeks ago

    I’ve been married to my CN for almost 22 years, coupled for 25. We have 5 children, aged 21 – 13, who all still live at home and have been emotionally abused almost as much as I have. Currently, we are separated (since January of this year), but I’m nowhere near being done with him. I was hoping against hope that the therapy he has access to at t…[Read more]

  • CiCi Walite became a registered member 3 months, 4 weeks ago