Forgiveness may not mean what you think it means

August 31, 2019 / Alex Delon / Brilliance after Abuse, Discovery & Recovery, Emotional Abuse, Toxic Relationships / 5 Comments

FORGIVENESS MAY NOT MEAN WHAT YOU THINK IT MEANS Among abuse survivors, I hear a lot of debate over whether we should forgive our abuser or not. In fact, this is often a heated topic. Some victims think that the only way to heal is through forgiving your abuser. Then you can let go and […]

The Blame-Shame Nonsense Game

August 6, 2019 / Alex Delon / Beginning Again, Brilliance after Abuse, Codependence, Emotional Abuse, Single and Sassy, Understanding Narcissism / 4 Comments

That people are quick to hurl blame and shame in the guise of accountability is often nonsense and cruel. The Blame “It takes two, you know.” I got that one from a friend when I told her my husband was having another affair and I’d left him. She frosted her remark with, “Well, he always […]

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